Luxury Matchmaking in Chicago

Chicago’s most exclusive matchmaking service.

Dating in Chicago isn’t difficult because you’re doing it wrong, it’s difficult because you’re doing it alone.

 

From high-rise condos on Lake Shore Drive to the boardrooms of the Loop, successful men like you are often surrounded by people – but finding someone who truly sees you? That’s harder than it should be.

I offer a private, invitation-only matchmaking experience for accomplished men who are done with the apps and ready for something real. Every introduction is intentional, curated, and aligned with what you’re genuinely looking for – because someone like you shouldn’t have to settle.

Is Matchmaking Right For You?

You’ve built a successful life, but when it comes to love, nothing has quite felt right. If any of this resonates, you might be a perfect fit for my private matchmaking experience:

  • You’ve experienced success, now you’re looking for substance
  • You want a relationship built on compatibility, not convenience
  • You value discretion, privacy, and a tailored experience
  • You’re done with the dating scene in Chicago – apps, games, and surface-level connections just don’t interest you anymore
  • You know what you’re looking for – and want someone who aligns with your values and lifestyle
  • You expect quality in every area of your life – relationships included
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This experience is by invitation only – I work with a select number of men to ensure every client has a personalized experience and every match is meaningful.

This Isn’t Dating. It’s Matchmaking - Done Properly.

Working with me means you’ll never have to swipe, chase, or guess again. Here’s how my bespoke Chicago matchmaking process works:

Meet Your Match in Chicago

I work with clients across the U.S., but I truly understand the Chicago dating scene – from the pace of city life to the expectations that come with success. Whether you’re in the Gold Coast, Lincoln Park, or the North Shore, I can meet you in person to build a tailored dating strategy that reflects who you are and what you want.

From building your dating profile to setting up introductions and offering support after each date, I’m hands-on every step of the way. My team can handle everything from professional photos to post-date feedback sessions. This is luxury matchmaking — local, personal, and entirely focused on finding your person.

I offer exclusive, in-person matchmaking for men in Chicago who are serious about finding a meaningful, lasting connection.

The Men I've Worked With

FAQ'S About Matchmaking in Chicago

Most matchmaking services rely on databases or algorithms. I don’t. I work with a limited number of clients at a time, and every introduction is personally curated – based on real connection, not surface-level compatibility.

What sets my service apart is the level of involvement. I meet with my clients in person here in Chicago, build their profiles with intention, and actively search for matches who align with their values, lifestyle, and long-term goals. I stay involved through every step — from setting up the first date to checking in afterwards and refining the process. This isn’t a quick-fix service. It’s a hands-on, private matchmaking experience for men who expect the same level of quality in their relationships as they do in the rest of their lives.

No. I work with men across the U.S. If you’re based elsewhere, or you’re open to meeting someone outside your city – I can support that. I have a strong, trusted network across the country and regularly connect with relationship-ready women from coast to coast.

There’s no set number. I work with you until we find the right match. Every introduction is thoughtfully curated and fully vetted, and I only present someone when I believe there’s real potential.

If you want to meet in person, we can! I am based in Minnesota but fly out to meet my clients regularly. From profile building and photos to post-date feedback, I stay personally involved throughout the entire process.

I work with a wide range of  emotionally available, relationship-ready women in Chicago and beyond. You can expect to meet women who are aligned with what you are looking for – in values, lifestyle, and long-term vision. Every match is hand-selected, never random.

Discretion is at the heart of everything I do. I work with a limited number of clients at any one time, and every introduction is handled with complete confidentiality. I never share your personal information or photos without your explicit consent, and I only introduce you to someone once I believe there’s genuine alignment. This is a private, one-on-one service and I treat your personal life with the same care and respect I’d expect for my own.

Every date is tailored to you, your pace, preferences, and personality. Whether that’s a quiet table at Soho House, a private wine tasting in River North, or a walk by the lake followed by dinner in the West Loop, I make sure it feels natural, comfortable, and aligned with who you are.

This isn’t about over-the-top gestures (unless that’s your style). It’s about creating the right setting to help real connection happen. I take care of the details so you can stay present – from reservations and timing to thoughtful touches that show you at your best.

Dating in Chicago can be energizing, but also overwhelming. It’s a fast-paced city filled with successful, ambitious people, and yet so many of my clients say the same thing: “I keep meeting people, but none of them feel right.”

In a city this big, it’s easy to get lost in the noise – swiping through endless profiles, navigating surface-level conversations, and feeling like real connection is rare. That’s where I come in.

As your personal Chicago matchmaker, I’ll take the guesswork out of dating. I introduce you to emotionally available, relationship-ready women who are aligned with your values, lifestyle, and long-term goals – no apps, no algorithms, just intentional matchmaking designed to help you find something real.

Book a Private Consulation

This is a discreet, one-on-one matchmaking experience for successful men in Chicago who are serious about finding the right partner. If that’s you, let’s have a conversation. We’ll meet for 15 minutes to see if we’re the right fit to work together.

Erica Suzanne Matchmaker on the phone