Frequently Asked Questions
Erica Suzanne Matchmaking FAQs
Working with me
What makes your matchmaking approach different?
I work with both men and women using a high-end, personalized approach that goes far beyond just setting up dates. This isn’t about volume—it’s about quality, alignment, and long-term success.
What makes us different is how hands-on and tailored the experience is. Every client is matched with their own dedicated matchmaker and dating coach. We intentionally keep our client list small—just 4 to 6 clients per matchmaker at any given time—so that you receive the one-on-one attention and discretion you deserve.
We also integrate Law of Attraction coaching and intentional dating principles into the process. It’s not just about finding someone—it’s about attracting the right relationship and showing up as your best self to receive it.
Behind every introduction is thoughtful strategy. We personally interview every potential match (often more than once) before we even consider making an introduction. Your time is valuable, and we never take that for granted.
Who do you work with?
I work with both men and women who are emotionally ready, relationship-minded, and serious about finding lasting love. Most of my clients are successful professionals who want to be just as intentional about their love life as they are about the rest of their lives.
Do you work with both men and women?
Yes! Unlike many matchmakers, I work with both men and women, offering a tailored experience for each client. Whether you’re new to matchmaking or have tried everything else, I meet you where you’re at and guide you forward.
Do you offer a free consultation?
Yes—I offer a free consultation call to anyone who’s serious about finding love and curious about working together. It’s your chance to ask questions, share your story, and see if this feels like the right fit. You can schedule a free consultation here.
What’s the first step to working with you?
The first step is simply to apply. If I believe I can help you, we’ll schedule a call to get to know each other. I only work with people I feel genuinely aligned with, and I’ll always be honest about whether this is the right fit.
Do you work with clients outside of Minnesota?
Yes. While I am based in Minnesota, I travel across the U.S. to work with my clients. I work with people from around the world. If you’re serious about finding love and open to dating beyond your immediate city, we can absolutely make it work.
What if I’ve never used a matchmaker before?
That’s completely okay. Most of my clients haven’t either. I guide you through the entire process with clarity and care, making sure you feel confident and supported from day one. This isn’t about playing games—it’s about creating real connection.
Can I be in your database without becoming a client?
Yes. If you’re not ready to become a client, you can still join my private, vetted database. If I have a client who could be a great fit for you, we’ll reach out. It’s free to join and completely confidential. Apply to join my database here.
I’ve had bad luck with dating apps—how is this different?
Dating apps can feel like a full-time job. This is completely different. I hand-select introductions for you based on values, compatibility, and long-term potential—not algorithms or swipes. You don’t have to guess someone’s intentions. I do the vetting for you.
I’m a private person—how discreet is this process?
Discretion is a top priority. Everything we discuss and everyone you’re introduced to is handled with complete confidentiality. Your personal life stays personal.
Do you offer virtual matchmaking?
Yes. It’s up to you whether you want to meet in person or not, but all of my processes can be done virtually, so you can work with me no matter where you live. From discovery calls to coaching and introductions, everything is designed to be flexible, accessible, and just as effective online.
My Matchmaking Process
How does the matchmaking process work?
Once you become a client, we begin with a deep dive into who you are, what you’re looking for, and what may be holding you back. I’ll guide you through emotional clarity work, coach you where needed, and begin the process of curating potential matches. Every introduction is thoughtfully selected and arranged by me.
How long does it take to find a match?
There’s no guaranteed timeline. Some clients meet someone early in the process; others take a little longer. It depends on your preferences, readiness, and the kind of relationship you’re looking for. What I can guarantee is that I’ll be in your corner every step of the way.
How involved are you in the process?
Very. I don’t outsource or pass you off to a large team. When you work with me, you get me. I’m there to coach you, advise you, and walk with you through the entire journey—from introductions to post-date support.
How are matches selected?
Each potential match goes through a multi-step vetting process. I personally interview every candidate and only present you with someone if I believe there’s genuine compatibility. I don’t send matches just to “see what happens”—every introduction is intentional.
Will I be matched with other clients or people outside your client base?
Both. I work with a small number of private clients and also maintain a vetted, confidential database of high-quality singles. I also actively recruit on your behalf when needed, always with your preferences and values in mind.
Do you guarantee I’ll find a relationship?
No one can guarantee love. What I can promise is a deeply personalized, high-touch experience and my full commitment to helping you find the right person. This is about doing the work, together, to get you closer to the relationship you want.
Do you limit the number of matches?
No, you have unlimited matches during your time working with me. I will guarantee a minimum of 3 matches.
Pricing & Commitment
How much does it cost to hire you as a matchmaker?
Matchmaking is a premium, boutique service and is priced accordingly. Because I work closely with each client and take on very few at a time, pricing reflects the level of time, care, and customization involved. We can talk specifics during your discovery call.
Do you offer payment plans?
We can discuss payment terms and payment plans during your free consultation or as part of the onboarding process.
Is there a minimum time commitment?
Yes. Building a meaningful relationship takes time and intention. I typically work with clients for 6 to 12 months, depending on the package and what you’re looking for.
Do you have memberships?
Yes – we have a selection of memberships available. Starting with a 3-month commitment and on going for as long as you need me.
Can I pause my membership?
Yes, you can put your membership on hold anytime you want and for as long as you want.
Eligibility & Expectations
Do you accept everyone who applies?
No. I only work with clients I believe I can genuinely help. If it’s not the right fit, I’ll always be upfront about that. I’m not here to take on everyone. I’m here to take on the right ones.
What kind of people do you typically work with?
My clients are successful, self-aware, and ready for something real. They’re emotionally mature and open to growth. They’re looking for a partner – not just a date.
What makes someone a good fit for this service?
If you’re relationship-ready, open to coaching, and willing to approach dating with a new mindset, you’re likely a great fit. You don’t need to be perfect—just ready.
Extras & Support
Do you offer dating coaching?
Yes. Coaching comes as part of your matchmaking package and is a core part of the experience. I offer support with everything from emotional clarity and dating mindset to communication strategies and relationship-building.
What if I need help between dates?
You have direct access to me throughout our work together. Whether you need help debriefing a date, crafting a message, or navigating something tricky, I’m here.
Do you offer help with texting, profiles, and photos?
Yes! I help clients refine their communication style, build better dating profiles (when needed), choose photos that represent them authentically, and even have my team personally take your photos for your preofile when needed. Everything we do is designed to set you up for success.
Can I refer someone to your service?
Yes, absolutely. Many of my best matches have come through trusted referrals. If you know someone who’s serious about finding love and would be a great fit for this kind of work, you can send them to my application page. Just let them know to mention your name when they apply.
Are your services refundable?
Due to the personalized nature of this work and the time I invest with each client, all matchmaking services are non-refundable. I’m committed to doing this work with intention, and I ask the same from my clients.